The word "narcissist" is often thrown around in conversations, press reporting and online discussions, but its misuse can have harmful effects. The toxic impact of labelling Meghan Markle a 'narcissist', especially when it's aimed at discrediting her because she's merely outspoken and confident, should worry us all. In its correct clinical sense, narcissism refers to a specific personality disorder characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. However, when taken out of its clinical context, the term can be dangerously weaponized, as evidenced by the 216,000 times that so-called royal experts, commentators and trolls online have characterized Meghan Markle in the last six years.
Weaponizing the term "narcissist" happens when it's used not as a genuine diagnosis but as a label to attack someone's character simply because they exhibit self-confidence or assertiveness. In many instances, Meghan Markle, who stands up for her beliefs, challenges the status quo and displays a strong sense of self-assuredness, is unfairly branded as a narcissist. This hurtful misuse of the word can have several implications for the Duchess of Sussex.
Firstly, it attempts to shame Meghan Markle, suggesting that her confidence is not just misplaced but a sign of a deeper psychological flaw. This can be particularly damaging when self-assurance is crucial, like in leadership roles or creative positions. By equating self-confidence with narcissism, we risk dampening Meghan and other's willingness to express themselves openly or take bold steps.
Secondly, it distorts the real meaning of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), trivializing a severe condition that affects many people. NPD is more than being self-centred or seeking attention; it's a complex disorder that requires understanding and professional treatment. Misusing the term undermines the experiences of those genuinely dealing with the disorder and can contribute to misunderstanding and stigmatization around mental health issues.
Moreover, using "narcissism" as a weapon in personal or public disputes against Meghan Markle can escalate conflicts and spread hate. Instead of addressing disagreements or criticisms constructively, labelling Meghan Markle as a narcissist shuts down meaningful dialogue, implying that her perspective is not just wrong but rooted in deep-seated psychological issues.
The misuse of "narcissist" as a label against Meghan Markle, who is an outspoken and confident individual, reveals a broader societal discomfort with assertive and self-assured women. It might reflect underlying biases that dictate who can express opinions confidently and who isn't. According to the British press, Meghan Markle is not one of those women who can express opinions confidently. This is particularly concerning when considering how such labelling has disproportionately targeted Meghan and certain groups based on gender, race, or social standing.
While it's essential for trained professionals to recognize and address genuine narcissistic behaviours in patients they have a right to diagnose, it's equally crucial to be mindful of how certain groups, institutions like the British press and the palaces' PR machine use psychological terms in everyday language. Misusing words like "narcissist" not only harms Meghan Markle and others subjected to it by unjustly attacking their character but also dilutes the significance of real mental health conditions. Encouraging open and respectful dialogue and understanding the true meaning behind our terms is vital to fostering a more empathetic and informed society.
The word ‘narcissist’ is dangerously weaponized against Meghan Markle.
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L J Louis, an aspiring international trade lawyer, writer, foodie, mother, and women's advocate with a double-major degree in psychology and criminology and a Bachelor of Law(Hons LLB) degree.